Something in Matthew Ricci’s gut told him he shouldn’t be in college. He’d grown up in upstate New York and then had gone to nearby Marist College in Poughkeepsie. He’d felt pressure to pick a career, but, as Ricci, now thirty, says, “I had no basis to pick anything. I couldn’t compare one career to another.”

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And so Ricci left school in 2004 and joined the U.S. Navy. After training, he was assigned to the torpedo division on a nuclear submarine, the USS Augusta. “It’s like living on an airplane with all its seats taken out,” Ricci recalls. Quarters were cramped. “You are confined to a close space under intense conditions and required to work as a team.”

His duty was to study every detail of the ship’s Tomahawk-missile weapons system. He learned how to maintain the Augusta’s nuclear reactor. He had to master so much information so quickly that Ricci compares the process to “trying to drink water coming out of a fire hydrant.” He can’t say where he was during this time. The sub’s course is classified. Ricci says even he wasn’t always told where they were. At times all he knew was that they were somewhere in the waters of the Mediterranean.

As he adapted to navy life, Ricci could feel himself becoming more focused and mature. “I learned the value of following through on your responsibilities,” he says, “and what it means for other people to depend on you.” In 2005, he married and then became a father to a daughter, Gretchen. He left the military four years later, because, he says, he wanted to stay put and help raise his child. “Family life was more important to me,” he says.

Ricci went back to college, at Eastern Connecticut State University, not knowing what to expect after his years away. To his surprise, he thrived. In fact, he was enjoying school so much he transferred to Brown in search of a greater academic challenge.

“I loved that Brown is a liberal place,” he says. The military was a “conservative culture, so I wanted to steep myself in something unfamiliar.”
By 2012, Ricci’s marriage was falling apart. “It was not a smooth process,” he says. “It made my studies much more difficult.” Ricci now took care of Gretchen on weekends as he pursued a degree in political science. On days when his ex-wife, who still lived in Connecticut, had to go to work early, he would drive down from Providence to take Gretchen to gymnastics, and then make it back to campus in time for a nine o’clock class.
Gretchen, says Ricci, “was an active participant and witness to her parent going to college. She understands how special it is to be a Brown student.” She even joined him on the walk to receive his diploma at the political science department’s graduation ceremony. 

Next Ricci will work for a health-care company outside Los Angeles.

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After her family lost everything to Hurricane Katrina in 2005, G. Maris Jones ’15 reconsidered her dream of going to Brown.

Seventy-eight percent of African malaria victims are children under the age of five. Nicholas Hilton ’15 wants to change that.

Clyde Lawrence ’15 wrote music for Miss Congeniality at age 6. He's also written for Hugh Grant and jammed with Steven Tyler.

Linh Tran ’15 spent two years helping fruit growers in her native Vietnam. She hopes you'll soon be drinking their fruit juice.

Sandra Kimokoti ’15 spent summer of her junior year in Kenya using sport to help girls open up about the challenges in their lives.

Research by Hannah Begley ’15 suggests juries may be quicker to convict on weak evidence for certain pornography charges.  


Comments (3)
I have noticed comments on here that have been removed. I don't know Matthew Ricci but I would ask you editor, why remove any comments? If they are opinion, let them speak! Freedom of speech anyone?
Perry 2015
This was brought to my attention by a peer who read the original postings. Perry, I agree with the sentiment to let them speak. I disagree whether or not the claims are opinion. Is there no public record? My father served in the US Air Force and I know all service members have discharge papers. Also, if what is claimed is true there should be a paper trail following the abuse allegations. I would also ask the editor, have you looked at the facts? 
-concerned student Brown University
Alyza H. 2016
I am Matt's former sister in law. My comment as well as my father's comment were removed, but I am glad at least someone saw them. It is absolutely 100% true. Matthew Ricci was DIShonorably discharged from the Navy due to repeated arrests for domestic violence. He is a wonderful liar and can charm the pants off of anyone. He is extremely intelligent but manipulative. He can make anyone like him and sympathize with him but the truth is he hides a dark secret past (not so long ago) and honestly I worry about the same thing happening to his current girlfriend. As a husband, Matt broke my sister down physically and emotionally. I could go into more detail but I won't. As a father Matt has broken promises to Gretchen and only sees her when it is convenient for him. He pays my sister $0 child support and they have a court date in 2 weeks. I am not trying to tarnish his reputation, I just want people to know he is not the struggling single father this article makes him out to be. My sister is the one who is struggling to put her life back together and still maintain some normalcy for Gretchen since the divorce. I know my comment will probably be deleted again. That's OK. I'll keep reposting if I have to, until people see Matthew Ricci for what he is... A selfish, immature excuse of a man who doesn't deserve such glowing praise.
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